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Your life, your people,
your citadel.

MyCitadel brings together your relationships, goals, health, and an AI advisor that truly knows you — so you can live with more intention, connection, and purpose.

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Relationship CRM

Track the people who matter most — birthdays, anniversaries, love languages, shared memories, and interaction history. Never let an important relationship drift.

Goal Tracking

Set meaningful goals, break them into milestones, and track your progress. Stay honest with yourself about what you're building toward and how you're doing.

Life Tracking

Log the metrics that matter to you — mood, sleep, energy, stress, exercise, and more. Build streaks, spot patterns, and understand how you're really doing.

Important Dates

A beautiful yearly calendar of every birthday, anniversary, and milestone across all your people. Never miss a moment that matters.

Me Profile

A living record of who you are — your facts, preferences, history, and life stats. The Oracle uses this to give you advice that's genuinely about you, not a generic user.

Smart Questions

MyCitadel proactively asks the right questions to fill in gaps in your data — no AI tokens needed. It learns what it doesn't know and asks you, naturally.

The Oracle

An AI advisor that actually knows your life

The Oracle isn't a generic chatbot. It knows your name, your people, your goals, your history — and it uses all of that to give you guidance that's specific, relevant, and grounded in reality.

Ask about your relationships, your goals, your health, or anything weighing on your mind. The Oracle responds with the warmth and wisdom of an advisor who has been paying attention.

Remembers every person, memory, and fact you've shared
Detects who you're talking about and loads their full context
Deep Dive mode: full access to everything known about a person
Never invents facts — only speaks to what it actually knows
Your conversations stay private. Always.

Good morning. Isaiah's birthday is in 6 days — he's turning 20. Want some ideas for how to make it meaningful?

Yes please. He's into music and pretty introverted.

Given what you've shared about Isaiah, a low-key celebration with something music-related would likely mean more than a big party. A vinyl record of an album he loves, or even a letter from you about who he's become, would land deeply for someone who values depth over fanfare.

Your data is sacred

Built with privacy at the foundation

You're trusting MyCitadel with some of the most personal information in your life — your family, your health, your memories. We take that seriously.

This is not a side note. It is the foundation everything else is built on.

Encrypted in transit

Every connection to MyCitadel uses HTTPS/TLS encryption. Your data is never transmitted in plain text — not your messages, not your health logs, not your memories.

We never sell your data

Your personal information is never sold to third parties, never used for advertising, and never shared with anyone who doesn't need it to run the service. Full stop.

No ads. Ever.

MyCitadel is funded by subscriptions, not advertising. We have no financial incentive to track you, profile you, or sell access to your attention. What you see is what you paid for.

Delete anytime

You own your data. You can export it or delete your account and all associated data at any time from your settings. No waiting periods, no dark patterns, no tricks.

Hosted on Google Cloud

Your data is stored on Google Cloud infrastructure with enterprise-grade physical security, redundancy, and uptime guarantees. The same infrastructure trusted by millions of businesses.

AI that only speaks truth

The Oracle is explicitly instructed never to invent facts about you or your relationships. It only speaks to what you've actually shared. If it doesn't know something, it asks.

Four pillars

Every dimension of a well-lived life

MyCitadel is designed around the four areas that, when tended to together, produce a life that feels full, connected, and on purpose.

Relationships

The people in your life are your greatest asset. MyCitadel helps you stay meaningfully connected — tracking interactions, remembering what matters, capturing memories, and making sure the people you love know it.

Goals

A life without direction drifts. MyCitadel helps you define what you're working toward, build a real plan for getting there, and stay honest about your progress — so your goals don't stay wishes.

Wellbeing

Everything else depends on how you're doing. MyCitadel makes it easy to track your physical and emotional health over time — not to obsess over numbers, but to understand yourself better.

Self-knowledge

Knowing yourself — your patterns, your preferences, your history — is the foundation of growth. The Me profile and Oracle work together to build a picture of who you are and who you're becoming.

Pricing

Simple, honest pricing

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Basic life tracking
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Important dates calendar

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